for pm's see the top right hand side where a grey outline of a envelope is click it and you will open your private messages
secondly
there is no real blame simple common sense
where you have posted is a new members introduction and you posted about problems with your RX
Hi my name is Ronald Donald etc
i drive a rx400h etc
that should be in the new members introduction not prblems with your car
it might seem alot at first but
its just simple rules so we prevent alot of the lurkers and leechers from asking questions and leaving and never coming back after their questions are answered
alot of the older members are sick of that and do not want to post much info due to this